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EFT: Emotional Freedom Tapping for Support Through Estrangement
Certain practices arrive in our lives at moments when we may least expect them but may really need them, those little anchors during times of overwhelm, transition, or heartbreak. For me, EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques) tapping first showed up about twelve years ago during a season of life that was very challenging, uncertain and painful.

Jules Allan
Dec 15, 20254 min read


The Estrangement Standoff: Discourses of Denial and Deflection
There are very observable patterns in the estrangement standoff between adult children and estranged parents that are reflected and reinforced in the cultural narrative.

Jen Maher
Nov 22, 202511 min read


Estrangement and Fear of the Unknown
“I miss my mom.” I’ve noticed that this sentence makes an appearance in my thoughts more than I care to admit. Sometimes it’s not surprising, like when I’m having a difficult day and my nerves and patience are worn thin. I start craving that support, understanding, validation, and love that only a mother can provide.

Sheena Sharma
Nov 17, 20253 min read


Ripple Effects, Disenfranchised Grief and the Myth of Healing
An exploration of the ripple effects of estrangement and how disenfranchised grief compounds and impacts the experience

Jen Maher
Aug 28, 20256 min read


The Value Of Anger
Anger is a vital and informative emotion, especially in healing, but it is often weaponized against the estranged and the estranged community

Jen Maher
Jul 24, 20257 min read


Advice column #20: How to keep showing up
This month, the advice columnist answers a question about loneliness and finding new connections.

J. Hila Peterson
May 29, 20259 min read


Advice column #18: On trauma, boundaries, and obligations
This month, the advice columnist answers a question about multigenerational families, mental health, and lasting traumas.

J. Hila Peterson
Mar 5, 202510 min read


Advice column #16: Estrangement and grief
This month, the advice columnist answers a question about walking away, unexpected losses, and making space for sorrow and for healing.

J. Hila Peterson
Nov 30, 20246 min read


Canceling Thanksgiving
The impact of conversations denied, distorted or delayed and the misalignment of values.

Jen Maher
Nov 24, 20247 min read


The Right Conversation Around Family Estrangement
November is Family Estrangement Awareness Month. The right conversation needs the right place to start.

Jen Maher
Nov 1, 20244 min read


Advice column #15: How do I celebrate this milestone?
This month, the advice columnist answers a question about celebrating life cycle events, like graduations, while estranged.
Julia Peterson
Oct 28, 20245 min read


When your family is your bully
Navigating the intersection of Bullying Prevention Month with family bullying and scapegoat abuse

Jen Maher
Oct 24, 20247 min read


The devastating impact of not mattering
The psychology of mattering and its impact on family estrangement.

Jen Maher
Oct 7, 20246 min read


Estrangement: The role of grandparent entitlement
"How dare you keep MY grandchild from me!" An exploration of how the entitlement of estranged parents extends to our children.

Jen Maher
Sep 8, 202410 min read


Healing Childhood Abuse with Self-Compassion
Practicing self-compassion can help you take better care of yourself as you heal from childhood trauma.

Em
Jul 17, 20243 min read


Healing Trauma by Spending Time in Nature
Nature has mental and physical health benefits and can be a useful tool when navigating PTSD, anxiety, depression, and other conditions.

Em
Jun 27, 20243 min read


It's the New Year: Reflections on the Estrangement Journey
It is now 2024, and I can’t help but reflect on where I was a year ago, where I am now, and where I might be in a year.

Em
Dec 29, 20233 min read


Advice Column #5: September Edition on Seeing Traits from Estranged Family Members Within Yourself
This month, our advice columnist answers a question about how to find self-love when you’re estranged.

J. Hila Peterson
Aug 28, 20235 min read


Advice Column #4: August Edition on Pain from Estrangement
This month, our Advice Columnist addresses the pain that comes with becoming disconnected with a family member and thoughts for reflection.

J. Hila Peterson
Jul 28, 20235 min read


An Introduction to Estrangement and Complex PTSD
Family estrangement comes with hardship, struggling with mental health, and maybe some diagnoses you were not expecting.

Em
Jun 15, 20237 min read
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