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Advice column #22: I can't keep her in my life any longer
This month, the advice columnist answers a question about housing, finances and sibling estrangement.
Julia Peterson
Nov 510 min read


Advice column #21: Mixing family and money
This month, the advice columnist answers a question about housing, finances and sibling estrangement.
J. Hila Peterson
Sep 306 min read


Advice column #20: How to keep showing up
This month, the advice columnist answers a question about loneliness and finding new connections.
J. Hila Peterson
May 299 min read


Advice column #19: "The situations aren't within my control."
This month, the advice columnist answers a question about sibling estrangement and reconciliation. Q: My sister decided to cut off...
J. Hila Peterson
Apr 107 min read


Advice column #18: On trauma, boundaries, and obligations
This month, the advice columnist answers a question about multigenerational families, mental health, and lasting traumas.
J. Hila Peterson
Mar 510 min read


Advice column #17: There are lots of ways to have a family
This month, the advice columnist answers a question about sibling relationships, clear communication, and family ties across generations.
J. Hila Peterson
Dec 28, 202412 min read


Advice column #16: Estrangement and grief
This month, the advice columnist answers a question about walking away, unexpected losses, and making space for sorrow and for healing.
J. Hila Peterson
Nov 30, 20246 min read


Advice column #15: How do I celebrate this milestone?
This month, the advice columnist answers a question about celebrating life cycle events, like graduations, while estranged.
Julia Peterson
Oct 28, 20245 min read


Advice column #14: How should I handle family gatherings?
This month, the advice columnist answers a question about being invited to family gatherings while estranged.
J. Hila Peterson
Jul 31, 20247 min read


Advice Column #13: How can I plan for my estrangement?
This month, the advice columnist answers a question about getting ready to leave home, especially when you are low-income and disabled.
Julia Peterson
Jun 20, 202410 min read


Advice Column #12: What happens when loved ones won't accept my estrangement?
This month, the advice columnist answers a question about relatives who won’t accept the letter-writer’s decision to become estranged from a
J. Hila Peterson
May 28, 20244 min read


Advice Column #11: What can I do when loved ones push me to reconcile?
This month, the advice columnist answers a question about how to handle loved ones who push you to reconcile with estranged relatives.
J. Hila Peterson
Apr 6, 20247 min read


Advice Column #10: Making the "Right Choice" When It Comes to Estrangement
This month, the advice columnist answers a question about maintaining connections to cherished relatives after estrangement.
J. Hila Peterson
Feb 5, 20247 min read


Advice Column #9: January Edition on Receiving Unexpected Cards or Gifts from Estranged Family Members
This month, the advice columnist answers a question about unexpected gifts from estranged relatives.
J. Hila Peterson
Dec 24, 20236 min read


Advice Column #8: December Edition on Creating a Chosen Family
This month, our advice columnist answers a question about how to find lasting support and connection after estrangement.
J. Hila Peterson
Nov 29, 20235 min read


Advice Column #7: November Edition on the Domino Effects of Estrangement
This month, our advice columnist answered a question about a situation where becoming estranged from one relative might mean losing contact.
J. Hila Peterson
Oct 29, 20236 min read


Advice Column #6: October Edition on Reconnecting with Estranged Family Members
This month, our advice columnist answers a question about reconnecting after estrangement.
J. Hila Peterson
Sep 27, 20236 min read


Advice Column #5: September Edition on Seeing Traits from Estranged Family Members Within Yourself
This month, our advice columnist answers a question about how to find self-love when you’re estranged.
J. Hila Peterson
Aug 28, 20235 min read


Advice Column #4: August Edition on Pain from Estrangement
This month, our Advice Columnist addresses the pain that comes with becoming disconnected with a family member and thoughts for reflection.
J. Hila Peterson
Jul 28, 20235 min read


Advice Column #3: July Edition on Running into Estranged Relatives
This month, our Advice Columnist answers a question about running into estranged relatives out in the world or at a family member’s home, an
J. Hila Peterson
Jun 30, 20235 min read
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