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Advice column #14: How should I handle family gatherings?
This month, the advice columnist answers a question about being invited to family gatherings while estranged.

J. Hila Peterson
Jul 31, 20247 min read


Let’s fight! What nearly everyone gets wrong about conflict
Article two of the July Educational Series dives into the often misunderstood role of conflict in family dynamics.

Jen Maher
Jul 25, 202410 min read


No “Perfect” Families Here
In recognition of July 18 "Perfect Family Day" this month's educational series will explore this topic.

Jen Maher
Jul 11, 20249 min read


Healing Trauma by Spending Time in Nature
Nature has mental and physical health benefits and can be a useful tool when navigating PTSD, anxiety, depression, and other conditions.

Em
Jun 27, 20243 min read


Exploring Forgiveness: No - You don’t need to forgive. Period. End of story.
In June, the educational series explores the topic of forgiveness.

Jen Maher
Jun 27, 20248 min read


Advice Column #13: How can I plan for my estrangement?
This month, the advice columnist answers a question about getting ready to leave home, especially when you are low-income and disabled.
Julia Peterson
Jun 20, 202410 min read


Advice Column #12: What happens when loved ones won't accept my estrangement?
This month, the advice columnist answers a question about relatives who won’t accept the letter-writer’s decision to become estranged from a

J. Hila Peterson
May 28, 20244 min read


Creating Safe Spaces After Estrangement
How do we design a trauma-informed space that nurtures our well-being and emotional health?

Em
May 26, 20243 min read


Advice Column #11: What can I do when loved ones push me to reconcile?
This month, the advice columnist answers a question about how to handle loved ones who push you to reconcile with estranged relatives.

J. Hila Peterson
Apr 6, 20247 min read


Healing Using Cognitive Processing Therapy
Cognitive Processing Therapy is a type of cognitive behavioral therapy that helps you learn how to recognize, modify, and challenge unhelpfu

Em
Mar 31, 20244 min read


Advice Column #10: Making the "Right Choice" When It Comes to Estrangement
This month, the advice columnist answers a question about maintaining connections to cherished relatives after estrangement.

J. Hila Peterson
Feb 5, 20247 min read


It's the New Year: Reflections on the Estrangement Journey
It is now 2024, and I can’t help but reflect on where I was a year ago, where I am now, and where I might be in a year.

Em
Dec 29, 20233 min read


Advice Column #9: January Edition on Receiving Unexpected Cards or Gifts from Estranged Family Members
This month, the advice columnist answers a question about unexpected gifts from estranged relatives.

J. Hila Peterson
Dec 24, 20236 min read


Advice Column #8: December Edition on Creating a Chosen Family
This month, our advice columnist answers a question about how to find lasting support and connection after estrangement.

J. Hila Peterson
Nov 29, 20235 min read


Together Estranged Announces the Togetherness Series: A Month-Long Event Focused on Community
For the estranged community, the holidays can be full of despair. Together Estranged, a nonprofit based out of Boston, MA, is working to cha

Together Estranged
Nov 14, 20233 min read


Creating New Traditions for the Holidays After Estrangement
Entering this time of year can bring up a lot for those estranged from their families.

Em
Nov 12, 20235 min read


Advice Column #7: November Edition on the Domino Effects of Estrangement
This month, our advice columnist answered a question about a situation where becoming estranged from one relative might mean losing contact.

J. Hila Peterson
Oct 29, 20236 min read


Advice Column #6: October Edition on Reconnecting with Estranged Family Members
This month, our advice columnist answers a question about reconnecting after estrangement.

J. Hila Peterson
Sep 27, 20236 min read


Advice Column #5: September Edition on Seeing Traits from Estranged Family Members Within Yourself
This month, our advice columnist answers a question about how to find self-love when you’re estranged.

J. Hila Peterson
Aug 28, 20235 min read


Exploring Your Window of Tolerance
Estrangement can lead to a lot of stress and emotional dys-regulation, but the Window of Tolerance can help manage a lot of this. Being...

Em
Aug 23, 20234 min read
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